do men like dildos

My best friend asked me a funny question the other day. She wanted to know, “Do men like dildos?” I must admit, I was a bit taken aback by the question since it’s not something I usually talk about. But I thought about it and I guess it can be a valid question. Not everyone is the same; some people have all types of fetishes and desires, and some even choose to use sex toys.

I must say, I know quite a few men who have owned dildos before and had fun with them. Of course, to each his own – some of them might have just bought it out of curiosity or as a joke – and some were open to trying out anything new when it came to bedroom fun.

In my experience, I’ve seen men enjoy using dildos in sex quite a bit. Most men feel more powerful when in control of the sexual act, but the great thing about using dildos is that it allows them to take charge during sex without going all macho about it. Besides, both partners benefit from better pleasure because of the heightened physical experience dildos offer.

I think men who are more open to experiencing new things are more likely to want to use dildos. For starters, they are less afraid to experiment. Secondly, they understand that trying new things can bring more pleasure, physical or emotional, to themselves and their partners. If you think about it, there’s no downside to it if both partners are comfortable with it.

Furthermore, using dildos as a couple can foster closeness as partners take the time to understand each other’s preferences and needs. After all, it’s not just about the physical act – there’s the whole emotional and psychological aspect to it as well.

At the end of the day, I think it’s pretty much down to individual preference. Some men will love the idea of using dildos and may find it to be an exciting and pleasurable experience. Other men, however, might not be into it at all. Personally, I think it’s ok for men to use dildos if it’s something they want to try – we can all use some toys to improve our sex life, right?

Now that we know that men do sometimes like dildos, let’s think about why they may be a better option than the traditional tools. For one, dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and materials which allows for more experimentation. They can be used to target specific erogenous zones that may give more pleasurable sensations than traditional tools. Plus, since dildos are made of silicone or latex, they are flexible and softer on the skin.

Dildos also offer more variation during sex play. Men and women alike can use it in different ways to achieve new sensations and results. There are even some couples who prefer to use dildos over foreplay or sex itself. If you think about it, dildos can be an amazing way to bring some extra fun to the bedroom.

Apart from being a more pleasurable experience, dildos also provide safety and security. Not everyone is into the idea of flinging their partner around the room, and some may even be hesitant to experiment with sex furniture. With a dildo, there is no fear or apprehension which can make it more comfortable and enjoyable for both partners.

If you would have asked me this question some time back, I wouldn’t have been comfortable answering. But, after having thought about it for a few days, I do believe men and dildos can actually go hand in hand. As long as it is done respectfully and in a consensual manner, there is no reason why it can’t be fun and satisfying for both parties.