Firstly, make sure you are relaxed. Before you even place the dildo inside, make sure you’re in a comfortable position. Trust me, this makes all the difference in the world. It took me a few tries before I learned this lesson, but now I can comfortably put a dildo inside me. I can’t stress how important that is.
Secondly, add a bit of lube. This part is pretty easy. Just grab a bottle of lube at the store and use it liberally. You can use any kind you want! I like to go with a water based lube but anything will do. Don’t be stingy with it either, really make sure a good coat of lube covers the dildo.
Thirdly, find the right positions. This might be the hardest part for some of you. It’s important to find what positions work best for you. Maybe it’s doggie style or maybe you’re more of a fan of missionary, either way experiment until you find what works. Don’t be afraid to try out different positions, it’s all about finding what works for you.
Fourthly, take your time. There’s no rush, right? It’s all about you and what you want to do. Take your time and really enjoy the experience. Find the pleasurable sensations and take it from there. There’s nothing wrong with going a bit slower and really taking your time until you get comfortable.
Fifthly, use positions that target the G-spot. The G-spot is a pleasure-filled area inside of us that can really add to the experience. Some good positions that work to target the G-spot are the cowgirl, rear entry and the side saddle. Much like the other positions, try them out an see what works for you.
Lastly, be confident! The more confident you are, the better off you’ll be. When we are confident in our own abilities, it shows and we can really enjoy ourselves. Don’t be afraid to just go for it and have fun.
Now, let’s talk more in-depth about positions. When it comes to keeping a dildo inside of us, getting the right angle can really make a difference. The best way to find the right angle is to experiment, and do what feels good! Rear entry positions, such as doggie style or cowgirl, are very effective for inserting the dildo. The angle of the hips provides a really great way to use the dildo in order to hit the right spot.
You can also try different positions that allow for some control. A good one to try is side saddle. This one requires one partner to lay on their back while the other straddles them beneath. This provides a lot of control, which is what we want. Find the angle that works, and move accordingly. You can also switch up the angles during sex to make sure the dildo stays in place.
Now, let’s talk about size. Remember, size doesn’t matter—it’s all about comfort! Make sure you get a dildo that you feel comfortable with. Don’t rush into anything, start small and work your way up. If you’re comfortable, the whole experience will be better. You don’t want to choose a size that’s too big, that might make the whole experience very uncomfortable. So take your time, find a size that works for you.
If you don’t have much experience with dildos, then it might be a good idea to start with a vibrator. Vibrators are great for getting to know your body and learning what works and what doesn’t. Plus, there is nothing better than having a good time with a vibrator! Once you’re comfortable with the vibrator, then you can move onto bigger toys.
It is also important to remember to take care of the toy. Make sure you clean it before and after every use. We don’t want to be spreading any unwanted bacteria. Plus, it’s always a good idea to use condoms on the toy if you are sharing it. This will ensure that everyone involved is safe and healthy.
Finally, always remember to have fun! This is an experience that should be enjoyed, so don’t be afraid to explore and find what works for you. There is no right or wrong way to use a dildo, as long as you’re enjoying yourself. So take your time, find the positions that work for you, and trust me, it’ll make the experience so much better.