It was kind of jaw-dropping. I mean, I guess I shouldn’t have been so surprised since there’s literally no limit to human sexuality, but it seemed counterintuitive to think that straight guys would use this type of product.
I very carefully asked him where he had heard such a thing, and he shrugged and said “Oh, you know, friends and stuff. This is like, totally normal to talk about.” I didn’t believe him—I just couldn’t wrap my head around the thought of macho straight men wanting to explore this kind of pleasure.
So I decided to do some research. To my surprise, it turns out that yes, plenty of straight guys use dildos! The thing is, they have to go through a lot of trust-building and education before they feel comfortable enough to do so.
A lot of the time, if a straight man has never used a dildo before, his female partner might be the one to introduce him to it. Women are often more open to exploring an array of sexual pleasure products and, depending on the couple’s relationship, can be the one to make them comfortable to try something new together. Amazing, right?
I was actually shocked by how normal it is for straight men to experiment with sex toys. This isn’t just some urban legend—it’s something that really is happening and is often accepted by our society. It’s definitely still controversial in some circles, but for the most part it’s something that couples do to spice up their relationship and gain mutual sexual satisfaction.
The same goes for the homosexual population. Sure, it’s not that common in straight couples, but for gay guys it IS a perfectly normal part of their sex life. There are dildos made specifically for men, so it’s not like they have to worry about not being able to find the right size or shape.
I also noticed that a lot of times, couples are actually using dildos as a way to explore BDSM. If it wasn’t for the dildo, they wouldn’t have been able to experience the pleasure of domination and submission—or at least not in the same way. So yes, they play a huge role in that kind of escapism.
Finally, I wanted to know if dildos really give a guy the same kind of pleasure that a real partner does. From what I’ve seen, vibrators it’s similar to using a vibrator—it feels amazing, but it’s not exactly the same as having a real, skin-on-skin experience. So in that sense, a dildo is a great tool to use for solo pleasure, but not necessarily for couples.
So, do straight guys use dildos? You better believe it. Whether it’s to explore BDSM or just to add a bit of spice to their sexual routine, more and more straight men are discovering the world of dildos. Of course, it’s still a relatively underground topic—but that’s changing quickly.
Anyway, what do you guys think? Do straight guys really use dildos?